All the secondary IF blogs I read, all of them are doing IVF. I realize some had primary IF and some have different partners. It makes me nervous for myself. I know IVF was never brought up to us, but are WE heading in that direction. B/c if it is brought up DH is going to shoot it down, like in a mintue and it makes me so nervous to see ladies who have lovely little kids, trying for #2 and having to resort to IVF. It makes me sad for them and scared for me.
I was cruising secondary IF blods on teh Stirrup Queens Blog and noticed this tread. So it got me thinking. Sorry if I upset anyone, I am just afraid we will head that way and be screwed.
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I understand your concern since I have noticed the same thing too. We did an IUI for number one and while DH says we can do fertility treatments again if needed for #2, he also says that if it comes down to IVF for number 2 and we don't have the money, then that is it. It makes me sad, I have always two and so has he but I also understand where he is coming from.
I would sit down with him and really talk about IVF and you wanting to try ANYTHING for number 2. Hear him out because maybe he will have a good point, or maybe you can find a weakness and change his mind.
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