RESENTMENT

Not sure what brought this feeling on, maybe it was while we were at a picnic yesturday and everyone was telling us we need to have another baby (if they only knew) or that today I will see my Aunt for the first time since she announced she was pregnant (I am very happy for them, for the record) but I felt a wave of RESENTMENT today.

A few things that I resent...

1. People getting pregnant on the first few tries...
2. People having BFP accidents...
3. People thinking it is so easy to get pregnant...
4. People who PAY OUT nothing to have a child (damn health insurance coverage who covers NOTHING) *I am not talking about those with IF coverage but those who do not know the pain of IF can bring financially...
5. People taking their pregnancy for granted and not treating as a miracle...
6. People who complain about being pregnant (I never complained once while pregnant with my daughter - I was way to happy to be pregnant - feel free to bring on the morning sickness)...
7. People who tell you to "relax" and you will get pregnant...
8. People who do not understand what IF couples go through to get pregnant...
9. People who never ask how you are holding up while living in this life called INFERITILTY...
10. People who do not understand Secondary Inferility is just as painful as primary inferility and just because you have one child does not mean you are not infertile...

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