After stopping by the RE office to pick up the SA cup and spoke to the nurse briefly about when to call when my period arrives I picked up my Daughter at my Mom's. I spoke to my Mom about how scheduling to get this SA done with Dh's schedule will be hard. I also told her that I know this process is going to take longer then I thought, I also asked her to please ask my sister to tell me she is pregnant over the phone instead of in person b/c I do not know how I might react. She said back to me, well your sister SHOULD be pregnant first her son is older then your Daughter, to which I replied, yes but she is also 4 years younger and has no know fertility issues, my clock is ticking and I do not have much time. (I will be 30 next year.) If my ovary was no so messed up I would not worry about it, but I am.
This comment pissed me off b/c it felt like she was hoping my sister would get her BFP first since she DERSERVES it and I don't. This is a load of crock b/c my sister did not even want more children, she said the thought of more made her physically ill. Go figure.
So the point of the story is my sister will probably be pregnant first which will put a damper on our plans b/c I feel like my Mom can not handle two infants at once, 4 kids total. This is not fair, I have been wanting another child for over a year. Sorry to whine, I was just so upset by this comment.
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I would have been so mad about that comment. I know how those kind of things can really sting...my SIL is trying to "beat" me to pregnancy. She already has a child and has never had any fertility issues. It is not a race, and it really is not fair that those who don't want it as much get theirs first. Hang in there. I hope you get yours first...just for the record.
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